Is it wise to ignore your ex?

Have you heard people say that you should ignore your ex after the breakup?

This is a strategy that some experts suggest using... basically, it means you shut down all communication with your ex for a certain period of time.

What do you think? Is this "total radio silence" a good idea?

Well, I've done quite a bit of research on the topic, and the results are pretty damn convincing...

This strategy WORKS.  Like, really well.

(I'm not going to claim that I "invented" this concept, but I'd like to think I helped make it one of the most-recommended strategies to winning your ex back.)

The reason ignoring your ex is so effective is pretty simple:  it will make him miss you. You see... humans are creatures of habit.  During your time together, your ex becomes accustomed to having you around.  You were there for him when he needed someone to talk to, when he wasn't feeling well, when he was bored, etc.

After you broke up, your ex was suddenly facing a new reality:  that you might not be around anymore.  That you might not be there to reply to his texts, make his dinner, and listen to him bitch about his boss. But, because your ex probably isn't an idiot, he knows that breaking up with you doesn't have to mean losing you completely, at least, not at first.

Chances are if your ex called you right now, you'd pick up, right? And if he asked you to meet him for coffee to talk about that irritating boss, you'd agree, wouldn't you? So really, since you're still going to talk with him whenever he wants, he hasn't really lost you at all, has he?

He's got "the best of both worlds".  He gets to break up with you, but he still has you on standby, and knows you'll be around to talk to or to be "plan B" in case he doesn't like being single.  THAT'S why you need to stop talking to your ex after the breakup.......It's because he needs to be forced into learning what it's like when you're not around.

...It's because he needs to feel the pain of losing you completely. .It's because he needs to realize that breaking up with you means he loses you completely and forever. It's because he needs to see that you'll be more than happy to replace him with some new chick.

Zip Zam Zoom – Magical Words to Win Him Back

Getting your boyfriend back isn’t always a walk in the park. You may have been trying for some time, without success, to make it happen. That’s probably what led you here. You’re looking for a quick and easy, perhaps even magical, solution to get him back for good this time around.

 What is Magic?

For some people magic is something mystical and wonderful that cannot be understood, much less explained. For other people, magic is simply a trick of the eye or some sort of sleight of hand that always has a solution.

 Whether your definition of magic includes something enchanting and wonderful or a mystery to solve, getting your boyfriend back doesn’t involve supernatural maneuverings.

BUT

A few magic words certainly want help.

Zip

This is the little pop of fun, pep, and life that is necessary in all lasting relationships. What kind of zip has your relationship had lately? Were things going along swell and suddenly the bottom fell out?

OR

Have things been slowly switching from sizzle to fizzle in recent months? When was the last time you went on a romantic date together? How long has it been since you weren’t able to keep your hands off each other?

 But how do you put the “zip” back in after the fact?

You add the zip into your own life. Spruce up your image a bit. Add a little sparkle to your appearance, add a little boost to your confidence, and become the vibrant, active girl you were when you first met. If the two of you move in remotely similar social circles he will hear about the new you – and it will drive him insane with curiosity.

Zam

Get into the best shape of your life. Whether it’s losing weight or adding a little tone, now is the time to get into shape and really take care of yourself. Make sure you’re eating nutritious meals and drinking plenty of water to stay hydrated. These things are important because the one thing you want, more than anything else, if you cross paths with your ex boyfriend is to come across as happy and healthy.

He expects you to do a little bit of pining and it’s going to really make him curious about what’s going on in your life if you’re going around looking better than ever.

Zoom

Keep going and don’t stop to grieve over him. Commit yourself to living your best life without him in it. It’s not moving on. It’s not letting go of the idea of getting him back. It’s even better. It’s showing him that you don’t NEED him – all the while he’s figuring out that he might actually need you.

Relationships aren’t easy, but neither is breaking up. Give him the chance to see that you’re making it on your own, without him, and he’s very likely to make the first move so you will have no trouble convincing him that the idea to get back together was all his. THAT is the truly magical aspect of getting your boyfriend back – convincing him that he’s the one who wanted to make it happen.

Stop Listening to Your Girlfriends – Here’s What You Need to do to Get Him Back

You love ‘em dearly. You know your girlfriends have your back. But, when it comes to tactics to get your ex back, they just may be steering you in the wrong direction. They could, well-meaning as they may be, even be hurting your chances of success.

Getting dumped by the boy you still love is one of the most difficult things a girl can go through. When it’s all said and done, you have one though on your mind – getting him back.

Your girlfriends have been there to hear you out. They’ve given you shoulders to cry on. They’ve even shared their super-secret chocolate stashes with you to help you get through this crisis in your life.

Now, they’re offering you the best advice they have to give on how to get him back. Unfortunately, their advice is based on the rules girls play by and they aren’t going to be all that effective at getting him back. If you really want to win him back, you’re going to have to play the game by his rules – to some degree.

Playing a Girl’s Game with the Boy’s Rule Book

1)  Never let him see you coming. Your number one priority right now is to get him back. That means you have to dedicate yourself to the task. But, you have to do it in a way that doesn’t look like you’re trying to get him back. Don’t show your hands because he’ll constantly be watching and waiting for you to make your move.

2)  Show the world you’ve moved on. This includes your girlfriends. Smile. Go out and join the crowd. Fake it until you have everyone convinced that you truly have moved on.

3) Let him know you’ve got game. All the time that you’re trying to show everyone you’ve moved on, you need to invest in making yourself over from the inside out. Become the stronger, more independent woman you’ve always wanted to be. Get a makeover. Change your hair style. Learn to walk in those six-inch heels guys love so much. Become confident in your own skin. Once you’ve accomplished all this – then you let him see you coming and watch the fireworks as he takes in the new you.

Why is this so Effective?

In relationships, you often begin to take each other for granted. The more you learn about each other, the fewer mysteries there are to uncover. You’re presenting him with a whole new you and many more mysteries to unlock. It’s a curious mystery he’s powerless to resist – especially if there ever were genuine feelings on his part. And your girlfriends? They love you regardless of whether you take their advice or not.

REVIEW OF “THE EX FACTOR GUIDE” ON GET YOUR X BACK BY BRAD BROWNING

SUMMARY:

Brad Browning’s “Ex Factor Guide” program is easily the most comprehensive and most effective guide to getting your ex back. After reviewing a number of similar products, we recommend “The Ex Factor Guide” as the #1 choice if you’re looking for a step-by-step instruction manual on how to win your ex back.

FULL REVIEW:

When I first stumbled across Brad Browning’s new “Ex Factor Guide” program, I thought it would probably be like all the rest of the ‘ex back’ products for sale on the internet. Boy, was I wrong!

First of all, “The Ex Factor Guide” is easily the most thorough and comprehensive guide ever written on the subject. It leaves no stones unturned: you may think that your situation is unique, and that any book on the topic can’t possibly address the issues you’re facing. Well, with “The Ex Factor Guide”, that’s definitely not the case! Brad has covered every possible scenario and “what if,” meaning that by the time you’ve finished reading the program, your questions are almost certain to have been answered in depth.

Not only is it the most comprehensive program, it’s also the only guide we’re found that actually provides hundreds of real-world examples on how to apply Brad’s techniques. Brad’s chapter on text messages, for example, offers dozens of canned text messages you can send to your ex that are almost guaranteed to get a response!

Perhaps most importantly, it’s very clear that the sneaky psychological techniques recommended by Brad in “The Ex Factor Guide” have been researched and tested by couples in the real world. Brad Browning is a certified relationship counselor, and his decades of experience working with couples to repair broken relationships is clearly evident throughout the book. He offers dozens of unique and ground-breaking ideas that I’ve never read anywhere else.

Brad claims that over 90% of all relationships can be salvaged, and while that may sound unreasonably high, I actually tend to think he’s being completely honest. It’s no stretch to imagine that, as he states on his website, anyone who reads and applies his techniques is almost guaranteed to have their ex begging for a second chance.

What about the program itself? The core of the program is a 125 page e-book, professionally written & presented in PDF format. There’s also an audio version and a cool video course also included in the price, plus two excellent bonus e-books that cover various topics not addressed in the main e-book.

The best part! It’s all available *instantly* from Brad’s website… there’s no shipping fees and no waiting around for the mailman, because you can download the entire program within 2 mintues of ordering. That’s great news, considering that when you’re trying to get your ex back, time is of the essence!

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Darn insecurities!!

Accepting yourself for who you are is hard for many people. Accepting your weaknesses, your strengths, your good qualities, and your bad qualities is not something that we are taught in school.

For the most part of our lives, we are being told how to live our life, how to behave, what's good, what's bad, and we are constantly being judged by almost everyone.

It's one of the root causes of insecurities. If you could just accept who you are and stop judging yourself, comparing yourself, and stop berating yourself over your past experiences, you will be a much happier person.

Insecurities in a relationship usually develop from past experiences. Something that reminds you of your negative past, might bring up all those negative emotions that were associated with that past event.

Everyone has that. How you deal with it is what defines your personality. If you let that insecurity lead into a fight and ruin your relationship, you are doomed to having a life full of sour relationships.

But if you accept those insecurities and work on it constructively, you can have a relationship that most people only dream of. But, the only way to work on relationship insecurities constructively is you have an understanding girlfriend. And no girlfriend will be willing to understand you unless you are willing to understand her insecurities.

If you just try to make an effort to understand her fears, her insecurities, her feelings, her desires, she will feel blessed to have a boyfriend like you.

And the more she feels comfortable with you, the more of her insecurities will diminish over time. 

If you have a girlfriend with a lot of insecurities, and you ask someone for advice, they will probably tell you to dump her and move on, which is a good advice in case of extremely insecure women. But I strongly believe that if you have someone you think is worth holding on to, don't let their negative qualities overshadow their positive ones. 

No one is perfect. But relationships can be perfect.

You can deal with her insecurities if you tackle this problem the right way. 

Do You Really Want Your Ex Back?

It’s your new favorite relationship coach again. How have you been since I last wrote to you? Probably not that great; right?

Anyway, since I’m going to be your regular tutor now, why not get started with the common question everyone asks after a breakup:

‘Do you really want your ex back?’

If your answer is ‘I’m not sure’ or ‘I can’t tell’, then don’t worry, we’ve all been there. First of all though, I want you to remember all the good memories you had with your ex and then all the bad ones.

Now when you’re thinking about the good ones, do you see your ex as a potential soul mate or someone you can bear watching for the rest of your life? If yes, is your answer to the first part of this question; then let’s move on to the bad memories.

Of all the bad memories and heartbreaks you have with your ex; in any situation, did you feel that your ex devalues you as a person or does not hold the same amount of respect? If the answer is no, then you should be back with your ex and I’ll teach you how. But if the answer is yes, then you’re better off dating someone who at least has respect for you, something which is a concrete foundation in all successful relationships.

If your ex has respect for you in your heart, then your differences can be worked on, because in relationships, compromises and risks are always prevalent. Give this some thought while I catch up with you next week!

Have You Been Feeling Down and Heartbroken Lately?

Then welcome to my awesome newsletter!

Like you, I was going through a difficult emotional period when my now-husband broke up with me a couple of years ago. I used to call him 100 times a day to no answer, send him 1000 text to no reply, and swarmed his WhatsApp with messages that I now find quite funny and sometimes inappropriate.

Want to know how I got my ex back?

Well, it all started one day when I started to think about life, about emotions, about love, and sharing someone’s passions with my passions. That’s when I started to realize that acting like you’re obsessed with someone only makes them run away. But when you start to really LOVE them, that’s when the ship starts to sail steadily.

I’ll be sharing some amazing tips and tricks on dating, relationships, sex, and much more in my latter emails. As for now, why not treat yourself to a free gift that will definitely get you started on the right path?