Do You Really Want Your Ex Back?

It’s your new favorite relationship coach again. How have you been since I last wrote to you? Probably not that great; right?

Anyway, since I’m going to be your regular tutor now, why not get started with the common question everyone asks after a breakup:

‘Do you really want your ex back?’

If your answer is ‘I’m not sure’ or ‘I can’t tell’, then don’t worry, we’ve all been there. First of all though, I want you to remember all the good memories you had with your ex and then all the bad ones.

Now when you’re thinking about the good ones, do you see your ex as a potential soul mate or someone you can bear watching for the rest of your life? If yes, is your answer to the first part of this question; then let’s move on to the bad memories.

Of all the bad memories and heartbreaks you have with your ex; in any situation, did you feel that your ex devalues you as a person or does not hold the same amount of respect? If the answer is no, then you should be back with your ex and I’ll teach you how. But if the answer is yes, then you’re better off dating someone who at least has respect for you, something which is a concrete foundation in all successful relationships.

If your ex has respect for you in your heart, then your differences can be worked on, because in relationships, compromises and risks are always prevalent. Give this some thought while I catch up with you next week!