You
love ‘em dearly. You know your girlfriends have your back. But, when it comes
to tactics to get your ex back, they just may be steering you in the wrong
direction. They could, well-meaning as they may be, even be hurting your
chances of success.
Getting
dumped by the boy you still love is one of the most difficult things a girl can
go through. When it’s all said and done, you have one though on your mind –
getting him back.
Your
girlfriends have been there to hear you out. They’ve given you shoulders to cry
on. They’ve even shared their super-secret chocolate stashes with you to help
you get through this crisis in your life.
Now,
they’re offering you the best advice they have to give on how to get him back.
Unfortunately, their advice is based on the rules girls play by and they aren’t
going to be all that effective at getting him back. If you really want to win
him back, you’re going to have to play the game by his rules – to some degree.
Playing
a Girl’s Game with the Boy’s Rule Book
1) Never let him see you coming. Your
number one priority right now is to get him back. That means you have to
dedicate yourself to the task. But, you have to do it in a way that doesn’t
look like you’re trying to get him back. Don’t show your hands because he’ll
constantly be watching and waiting for you to make your move.
2) Show the world you’ve moved on. This
includes your girlfriends. Smile. Go out and join the crowd. Fake it until you have
everyone convinced that you truly have moved on.
3) Let him know you’ve got game. All the
time that you’re trying to show everyone you’ve moved on, you need to invest in
making yourself over from the inside out. Become the stronger, more independent
woman you’ve always wanted to be. Get a makeover. Change your hair style. Learn
to walk in those six-inch heels guys love so much. Become confident in your own
skin. Once you’ve accomplished all this – then you let him see you coming and
watch the fireworks as he takes in the new you.
Why
is this so Effective?
In
relationships, you often begin to take each other for granted. The more you
learn about each other, the fewer mysteries there are to uncover. You’re
presenting him with a whole new you and many more mysteries to unlock. It’s a
curious mystery he’s powerless to resist – especially if there ever were
genuine feelings on his part. And your girlfriends? They love you regardless of
whether you take their advice or not.